New England Counseling and Consulting

Serving Teens and Adults in CT and MA

LGTBQ+ Therapy

You're seen.

You're valued.

You belong.

Are you struggling to live authentically in a world that doesn't always understand?

Do you find yourself carefully navigating each day, unsure of when or how to express your true self?

Are you exhausted from the constant emotional labor of managing your identity?

Do you long for a space where you can simply be you, without fear or explanation?

As a member of the LGBTQ+ community, you face unique challenges that can take a toll on your mental health and well-being. The fear of rejection, the anxiety of coming out, and the frustration of living in a heteronormative society are real, valid struggles that deserve attention and care.

Each day, you might wake up feeling a mix of hope and anxiety about what lies ahead.

You carefully consider your appearance, wondering if you're "too visible" or if you should tone down aspects of your identity to avoid unwanted attention or discrimination.

At work or in social situations, you may find yourself self-censoring or avoiding personal topics to prevent awkward situations or potential rejection.

You don't have to face this journey alone.

The constant underlying stress of deciding when and how to come out to new people you meet can be overwhelming. You might struggle with feelings of loneliness or disconnect between your true self and the persona you present to the world. Perhaps you hesitate to make plans with friends or potential romantic interests, fearing misunderstanding or rejection.

One of the most challenging aspects can be the desire to fully accept and embrace your identity in a world that often doesn't understand or support you. This struggle can lead to feelings of isolation, anxiety, and depression.

However, there is hope. With the help of counseling, you can learn to navigate challenges, build resilience, and live an authentic life.

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Many LGBTQ+ Individuals Face Similar Challenges

If you're struggling with issues related to your identity, coming out, or finding acceptance, know that you're not alone. These challenges are common experiences within the LGBTQ+ community, and many individuals face similar hurdles on their journey to living authentically.

Research shows that LGBTQ+ individuals are at higher risk for mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, and substance abuse. This isn't because of who you are, but rather due to the stress of navigating a world that isn't always accepting or understanding.

The term "minority stress" is often used to describe the unique pressures faced by LGBTQ+ individuals.

Common experiences among LGBTQ+ individuals include:

  • Feelings of isolation or not belonging

  • Anxiety about coming out to family, friends, or colleagues

  • Struggles with self-acceptance and internalized negative beliefs

  • Difficulties in forming and maintaining relationships

  • Stress from microaggressions or overt discrimination

  • Challenges in accessing healthcare or other services

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a man with a smile on his face
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These experiences can lead to symptoms such as persistent worry, low mood, sleep disturbances, or difficulty concentrating. You might find yourself withdrawing from social situations or struggling to engage fully in work or studies.

However, it's important to remember that these challenges, while common, are not insurmountable. Many LGBTQ+ individuals have walked this path before you and have found ways to thrive and live authentically. The good news is that with the help of a compassionate, experienced therapist who understands LGBTQ+ issues, you can develop the tools and resilience to navigate these challenges.

Therapy can provide a safe space to explore your identity, work through internalized negative beliefs, and learn strategies for self-acceptance and assertiveness.

We respond to all outreach within 24 hours.

How Our LGBTQ-Affirming Therapists Can Transform Your Life

At our practice, we understand the unique challenges you face as a member of the LGBTQ+ community. The journey to self-acceptance and living authentically can be daunting, but you don't have to walk this path alone. Our specialized LGBTQ-affirming therapy offers a beacon of hope and a roadmap to a more fulfilling life.

Our approach is rooted in evidence-based practices specifically tailored to address the needs of LGBTQ+ individuals. We combine elements of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, and other evidence based therapies to create a comprehensive treatment plan that addresses your unique challenges.

When you start therapy with us, you're entering a safe, compassionate, and judgment-free zone. Here's what you can expect from our sessions:

🧠 Exploration and Understanding

We'll start by exploring your personal history, experiences, and the specific challenges you're facing. This helps us understand your unique situation and tailor our approach to your needs.

💪 Skill-Building

We'll teach you practical skills to manage anxiety, combat negative self-talk, and build resilience. These skills are specifically designed to address common challenges, such as coming out anxiety or dealing with discrimination.

✅ Identity Affirmation

Our therapy focuses on helping you embrace and celebrate your identity. We'll work together to challenge internalized negative beliefs and develop a positive self-image.

🛠️ Real-World Application

We emphasize real-world application of the tools and strategies we discuss. You'll learn how to navigate difficult situations, set boundaries, and advocate for yourself effectively.

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two men sitting on a couch looking at their phones

Research has shown that LGBTQ-affirming therapy can be highly effective.

You might be wondering, "Does therapy really work?" Yes, it does! Countless LGBTQ+ individuals have found real, lasting change through affirming therapy.

A 2015 study published in the Journal of Counseling Psychology found that LGBTQ individuals who received affirming therapy reported feeling better about themselves, less anxious and depressed, and more satisfied with life overall.

With your commitment to the therapeutic process, you can expect to:

  • Develop a stronger sense of self and identity

  • Learn effective coping strategies for dealing with minority stress

  • Improve your relationships and communication skills

  • Increase your self-esteem and self-acceptance

  • Find greater joy and authenticity in your daily life

"It's like finally being able to breathe freely after holding your breath for so long."

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Client Testimonials

Expert, Affirming Support

Imagine a therapy experience where you're truly seen, heard, and understood. That's what we offer at our practice. Several of our therapists identify as LGBTQ+, and our entire team is deeply committed to and experienced in LGBTQ+ affirming care.

We've witnessed countless individuals transform their lives, moving from struggle to strength, from hiding to living openly and proudly. One of our clients shared:

"Therapy has been life-changing. For the first time, I feel comfortable in my own skin and hopeful about my future."

Our diverse team brings a wealth of specialized knowledge and a passion for supporting LGBTQ+ individuals. While every journey is unique, we've seen that with support and guidance, remarkable change is possible.

Let us support you on this journey of self-discovery and growth.

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a man with glasses and a white jacket
Julie Kivlin

LMSW

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a woman with glasses and a purple shirt
Destiny Henkel

LCSW

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a woman with a smile on her face
Patrick Muro

LCSW

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a woman with long hair and a necklace
Lara Galazin

LMSW

We Hear You: Common Questions

It's completely normal to have concerns about starting therapy.

Here are some common worries you might have and how we can address them together.

I'm dealing with internalized homophobia/transphobia. Can therapy help with that?

Absolutely. Many LGBTQ+ individuals struggle with internalized negative beliefs. We have specific techniques to help you recognize, challenge, and overcome these internalized attitudes. Through therapy, you can develop a more positive self-image and learn to embrace your identity fully.

I'm not out to everyone in my life. Will therapy push me to come out?

How can therapy help with issues like discrimination or family rejection?

We'll work together to develop coping strategies, build resilience, and find support networks.

We can also help you process emotions related to these experiences and develop skills to advocate for yourself effectively.

Coming out is a personal journey, and we respect that completely. We'll never pressure you to come out to anyone. Therapy is a safe space to explore your feelings about coming out, without any expectation to act until you're ready.

Your Journey to Authenticity Starts Here

At our practice, we don't just understand LGBTQ+ issues—we live them.

Our team includes therapists who are proud members of the LGBTQ+ community, bringing personal insight alongside professional expertise. We've walked similar paths and faced similar challenges, allowing us to offer empathy and understanding that goes beyond textbook knowledge.

Ready to take the first step? We offer a free 15-minute phone consultation to discuss your specific needs and how we can help. It's a chance to ask questions, get a feel for our approach, and see if we're the right fit for you.

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Your journey to self-acceptance and authenticity is unique.

Let's walk that path together.

Send Us a Message

Reach out to us today. We will respond to you within 24 hours.

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